Traits That Every "Good" Girl Wants In Their Man...

This was requested from one of my guy friends on MySpace last night and I told them I would do this as soon as I woke up. So here I am! *lol*

This is a list of things that GOOD girls want from the men in their life. When I say "good" I mean girls who have good intentions. I won't deny that there are ALOT of bitches out there just trying to screw what good guys are left out of their time and money. I HATE girls like that! Giving us good girls a bad fucking name!

Anyway, this list is not in order from most important to least so no one thing is more important then the next. I hope this helps my friend, and other guys, out.

1) We Don't Expect Our Guys To Be Rich And Loaded.

We are completely and totally happy with you working at McDonald's or Wal-Mart as long as you take care of your bills and try to push yourself forward in life. A good girl will NEVER judge you by how big your wallet is...now, if you don't have a job, that's a different story but as long as we see you trying to find one and doing things to help out (clean, wash, etc) where ever you live, we will be content with you and try to help you find something better!



2) We Love A Guy Who Is Actually Thoughtful!

You know, you bring us a magazine because you remember us saying we liked it or you make a CD of our favorite music so we can listen to it on the way to work. Being thoughtful is the most romantic thing you can do for us and it makes us feel very loved.



3) Actually Listen To Us!

You know, not all girls are naive enough to think that just because a guy is staring at us means he's listening, especially a good girl. You know, when we are having a discussion, actually put in your 2 cents, we want to hear it, even if it is something as simple as a yes, no, or maybe so! If you overhear me say that I'm thinking about moving my room around, actually respond to it and say, "Well I think it would look good this way" or "I think its fine just the way it is". Listen to us and actually show us that you heard us, I promise any good girl will want to love up on you some more when they see it!



4) DON'T Lie To Us!

I know guys, you feel that sometimes you just have to lie so you won't get in trouble but, new flash, if you have a good girl, they are going to love that you can be honest with them. We don't care how much what you said hurt our feelings, we might cry about it at first or be mad about it for days but we will have a whole another level of love for you because you were man enough to tell the truth. So next time we ask your honest opinion, give it to us.



5) Make Us Feel Wanted In Other Way Then Sex!

Guys now a days generally forget that there is more to making a woman feel wanted then screwing her brains out. If all you take time out with her to do is sex then she's going to wind up feeling like a piece of meat. You know, actually take time out to make out with us without trying to push it to sex. When you see us cleaning the dishes, come up behind up us and place a kiss on the back of our neck. When we are out in public, pull us close and act like you don't want to let us go. Those moments right there can make us feel more wanted and sexier then actually doing the wild thing.



6) Encourage Us Not To Be So "Girlie"!

Guys, I know you hate it when we take hours in the bathroom getting ready to go out just to pick something up to eat and come back so why not encouage us to loosen up a bit. Actually tell us we look cute when we just rolled out of bed or that we look just fine in our sleep pants. You know, when we burp, don't look at us like we commited the sin of all sins. Show us that it is ok to be just as low maintence as you are about things. It works in your favor in the end.



7) Take Part In The Shopping Process!

I can not tell you how ANNOYING it is when your guy doesn't want to come into a shop with you because it's too girlie. The reason why we are going in there is so we can pick up some things to make ourselves hott for you so why not take part of the process. Any good girl will really appericate it and most likely go into those "guys only" stores to return the favor. We join seeing what you like and we like showing you what we like!



8) Don't Be Afraid To Talk About The Future!

Most guys hear about a girl talking about the future with them and cringe. Please don't...we don't want a guy around who isn't thinking about where they want to us with us. A good girl won't try to rush anything along but we like being able to talk with our guy seriously as to where they see the relationship going and where they want it to lead. It's a nice feeling to know that our guy is committed to us for the long haul.


9) Don't Act Different Towards Us When You Are Around Your Friends!

Us good girls HATE it when you don't really want to bother with us when you are around your friends. I mean, we understand that you don't want to call us by my nick names or want to be too lovey dovey on us but pulling a complete 180 on us is just plain rude! Have your hand in our back pocket or include us in the conversation you are having. Actually make plans to take us with you as you hang out with the guys. We want to see you in your natural environment and we want to become part of it but acting like a complete jerk for the sake of "looking hard for your homies" just isn't going to fly.

And that's it. These points listed above are the basics of what any good girl wants from her man. Showing these traits will leave us swooning and wanting you more then anything else in the world! Some of these things even have a more secret meaning behind them but that translation is for another blog at another time.

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